Friday, 16 March 2012

AURAT KO APNI PEHCHAN KI JANG HAR MAQAAM PAR LARNI HOGI !!!!






Aurat aur mard ki zindagi ka tarz badal raha hai, mard aur aurat ek gaari k do payye hain aur ye dono hi mashrey k ehm rukun bhi hain, ye wo batien hai jo hum sadiyon se suntey arahay hain, magar haqeqat kya hai? Kya aurat ko mahool aur huqooq hasil hain jo ik mard ko hasil hain, ajj hum Pakistani mahool ka jaiza lete hain tu surat e haal buhat mukhtalif nazar ati hai k ikiswi saadi ki aurat ko kis qadr masail aur pareshaniyon ka samna karna parta hai aur aurat apni pehchan k lye beshumaar masail ka shikaar hai, taleem ki saholatien na hone k braber hain aur jin elaqo mai mujood hai wahan larkiyon ko taleem hasil karne ki ijazat nahi di jati bs ye keh k unhen taleem hasil karne se mana kardiya jata hai k ye pharh likh k kya karengi, agey chal k inki shadi hi karni hai aur shadi k bad ye wohi ghar k kam kaaj karengi in ko taleem ki kya zarorat hai. Isi tarhan shehri zindagi ki bhi misaal kuch mukhtalif nahi hai, shehron mai bhi kuch tabqay aise hain jo yehi soch rakhtey hain aur apni larkiyun ko agey bharh k kuch karne ka muqa nahi dete aur agar larki ko taleem dilwa b dete hain tu bs itni k wo pharh likh sakay.

Humara deen Islam aurat ko taleem hasil karne se nahi rookta, aur naa hi kisi aise hunar ko seekhne se mana karta hai jo in k lye ammdani ka zarya ban sakey, Islam kabhi jaiz tareeqa ikhtiar karne per pabandi nahi lagata, ap khud sochen jab ik bacha duniya mai ata hai tu us k pehli dars gaah maa ki goud hoti hai, agar maa hi gair taleem yafta hogi tu wok is tarhan apni aulaad ki parwarish karegi, aur humare mashray mai aksar larkiyon ko yeh keh kar bhi taleem hasil karne se ruk diya jata hai k abb jo karna shadi k bad apney ghar ja kar karna lekin shadi k bad bhi larkiyon ki khawahish, khawahish hi reh jati hai, agr wo ghar or bachon ki zimedari sambhalne k sath sath nukri karna chahen tu kabhi usay apney shuhar k tanay sunnay ko miltey hain, tu kabhi ghar walon ki baten aur yehi wajah hai k aurat ajj apney makaam se na waqif hai aur apni ehmiat faramosh kar behti hai.


Larkiyan, larkon k muqabley mai tamaam tar shuboo mai behtreen karkardagi k tamgay hasil kar rahi hain, magar jab wo apni taleemi qabiliyat ki bina par aalmi zindagi mai qadam rakhna chahti hain tu rukawatien in ka muqaddar banti hain, hum sab ko is hawalay se sochna hoga aur apni soch ko wasi karte howe larkiyon k aalaa taleem k husool k lye iqdamat karne hongey takae larkiyan bhi agay akar apni qabiliyat ka luha manwa sakain.

Thursday, 15 March 2012

DIL SE MANE DEKHA PAKISTAN


I'm AbduL Sattar Edhi's philanthropy. I'm Arifa Karim's brilliance. I'm liaquat ali khan’s sacrifice. I'm Shahid Afridi's spirit. I'm Miandad's six. I'm imran Khan's enthusiasm. I’m the Abdul Salam’s noble prize. I’m fastest growing IT industry.I'm highest mountains of K-2 . I'm hardworking middle class. I've fought dictatorships v/s democracy. I'm 100,000 deaths for global peace. I’m the art of sadequain.I’m the poetry of allama iqbal.i’m the voice of Mehdi Hassan.I’m the words of Anwer maqsood.I’m Sharmeen Obaid Chinoy’s Oscar.I'm the victim of Nato attack.I'm the victim of Raymond Davis.I'm hospitality.I'm the bravest nation of the world.i’m the beauty of valley hunza.i’m 4th largest cotton producer.I'm 11th biggest rice producer in the world.Im Mustafa Kamal's effort.I'm BOL of Shoaib Mansoor.I'm not just bombs, poverty,terrorist, illletrate corruption.Yes, I am PAKISTAN and I would like to say proudly that “DIL SE MANE DEKHA PAKISTAN ♥♥♥♥























JUST A MINUTE


“Just a minute” “Wait a minute”


These words are commonly used in our everyday conversation that one tends to overlook the importance of a minute of time which, though tiny in itself, and with two syllables, is sufficient for a amount of work to be achieved. To realize the value of one minute: Ask the person who has missed the train, bus or plane. Treasure every moment you have. You will treasure it even more when you can share it with someone special, just in a single minute life-taking or life-giving decisions are taken!
Did you know that in this one minute, a person breathes more than 18 times, writes 40 or more and reads 300 words?

Again in a minute's time, the earth orbits around its axis 950 miles. In one minute a hundred and thousand newspapers are distributed or sold.

Did you know that mankind drinks 63,800 gallons of water and eats 4,000 tons of food in one minute? Treasure every moment you have. You will treasure it even more when you can share it with someone special.

A minute is a substantial period of one can never really imagine the infinite possibilities go all that can be achieved or can happen in just ONE MINUTE …

Tuesday, 13 March 2012

TAKE THE RIGHT DECISION

Decisions makes the life perfect but not all decision makes the life perfect some makes the life more difficult and  many problems faced by peoples for the wrong decisions.Right time takes right decisions.I think that somehow,we learn who we really are and then live with that decision.In some cases,however like job or marriage this is something that mostly takes time to decide and to take right decision.

Whenever we start new work,new business and to take new steps of life we should always take right decisions.If the man start a business,properly know and investigate that work and take right decisions in a right time if they don't take right decisions so their business can't be established and success.
A famous Quote of TONY ROBBINS;
"A real DECISION is measured by the fact that you have taken a new action.If there's no action  you 
haven't truly decided."

EXAMPLE
Floods destroy the human life,wild life,marine life,fields,crops etc every thing would lost and innocent and poor people had lost their life for the cause of floods.If the government should take the right decision and made the dams before the rainy seasons start  and restore river water in dams then may be floods can't destroy the human life.We know that floods is a natural disaster and no body knows when it comes but we should follow some precautions and take decision is must be necessary.

At the time when we are made our goals and aims first of all we should realize our abilities and interest and take right decision when we are selecting our educational field like science,commerce and arts and trust on yourself or decision.

WE CAN SMILE, ATLEAST!!!



Smile, an expression of happiness. This is the only thing that is so inexpensive and you can share as mush as you want. We can bring colours to others lives , we can make their lives joyful and also bring HOPE , just because of this very little thing  SMILE!
In our small life our one smile and positive attitude  towards  another  bring positive energy in him. This is very easy to do. These small things can make us to strive and struggle against hardships. These acts are priceless  but we are losing these happiness  and smily faces day by day in our society due to hardships and uncertainities.
HOPE  and SMILE  are interconnected with eachother. Both most of the times stand side by side. Hope disappeared from a society whose citizens forget to smile and where hope lost , faces of people of that society automatically become smileless.
There is a famous Chinese quote:           
               
“one who don’t know how to smile, he don’t have any right to start a business”.
we can change it in accordance of pakistani society as:
             
one who don’t know how to smile, he don’t have any right to socialize, to sit with  others, because energy whether it is positive or negative transfers from one to  another”.
According to Islamic point of view it is sunnah to smile and sadq-e-jaria as well.
we can not change the destiny of others, we can not give health to any one, we can’t provide food to others  but but but….. what we can do easily is just a little smile,,
WE CAN SMILE, ATLEAST!!!